Do you fight with your partner? The fight doesn’t necessarily mean heated arguments or slamming doors. When two people come together under a roof, sharing lives, they are bound to fight (how is important, but that’s a debate for another day). If those arguments are missing, it’s time you looked closely into your marriage.
How to know if you and your partner are going through a silent divorce?
- Lack of communication: Conversations are the heart of any healthy relationship, and the same goes for marriages. One of the most crucial signs of a silent divorce is the lack of these conversations. If your meaningful conversations about dreams, future, and emotions have vanished or turned to household chores, trouble is lurking.
- Absence of conflicts: Disagreements are common when two people come together. So, if there are no conflicts, it’s probably because your marriage is sliding toward silent divorce. Partners’ nonparticipation in disputes signals a deeper withdrawal. There is more than what meets the eye.
- No physical or emotional connection: If your partner has been distant, physically and emotionally, it is a clear sign. Lack of intimacy is a red flag, and hints that you are living like a roommate rather than a life partner.
- No shared dreams: Lack of shared dreams or goals is a hint of a dying marriage. At this point, couples start to lead separate lives.
- Indifference: One of the dire signs of a silent divorce is indifference towards each other’s lives. The lack of interest in knowing what’s happening in each other’s lives, or showing indifference towards the other person’s emotions or activities, hints at trouble.