Veekee James Tells Married Women: Don’t Refuse Your Husband Sex, Even When Tired

 

Veekee James Tells Married Women: Don’t Refuse Your Husband Sex, Even When Tired

 

Popular Nigerian fashion designer and social media influencer, Veekee James, has stirred conversations online following her advice to married women about maintaining intimacy in marriage, even during moments of physical exhaustion. In a candid discussion with her sister-in-law, Veekee, who has been married for over a year, encouraged wives not to deny their husbands sex, even when they feel too tired to participate fully. According to her, showing willingness—no matter how small—can help strengthen emotional and physical bonds between spouses.

“Sometimes you might be too tired to move, and the last thing you want is anyone touching you,” she said. “But if you see that your husband is really in need of it, just make an effort. You don’t have to do anything—just be present and make the crooked way straight,” she added in a humorous tone.

Veekee emphasized that intimacy is a key part of a healthy marriage, and said small gestures, even in tired moments, can make a big difference. However, she also stressed the need for healthy communication between partners. She advised women to express their tiredness in a soft and loving way, rather than turning their husbands away abruptly.

“On days when you’re not extremely tired, you can gently let him know how you feel and still make him feel loved,” she explained.

Her remarks have sparked debate across social media, with some praising her honesty and others criticizing the bluntness of her message. Regardless of the controversy, Veekee’s comments have reignited conversations about the role of physical affection and communication in maintaining strong marriages.